All very good points. Thank you both for giving me some more needed perspective. I guess I really do need to work on my detachment even more. I honestly thought I was getting there, perhaps not. Just the thought of going to this lawyer tomorrow has me deeply upset. I hate the situation that I am in.
In regards to the customers, it is as I said it. Now, for general customers, you would both be ABSOLUTELY right. However, the customers in question we both socialize with. One of the couples are actual relatives. All of them feel awkward regarding my wife, their words. They feel she has made many poor choices, continues to make poor choices and has isolated them. BUT, she also wanders into their campsites to "socialize" when they are here. I know how I would handle that situation, but these people feel they would rather ignore it or simply not come. I completely understand that. The last thing I would want on my holiday get away would be drama. I would also choose to keep my distance...For what it's worth, there is some insight.