Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

Of course, your tone of voice may not have sounded that way, IDK. But judging by the fact you wanted to press on with a R talk, I kind of think it was.

I don't think I sounded like I was whining. I didn't press on with R talk. I said we haven't talked about who is staying and who is leaving very much, Then didn't say anything further. The conversation didn't go any further than that.

It's a long road to reconciling. And, btw, don' t ever tell her you will wait for her to decide what she wants....

She has already told me that she has decided to be with him and not me.