X demands full custody because I'm engaged, Part 2

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I did "try" to communicate some of what's going on to the kids last night via texting. DS did not respond at all. DS was not happy with the truth of the matter and accused me of attempting to influence her. She's a kid and previously believed the judge will decide as she wants. I told her that wasn't the case, so I'm the "bad guy" once again trying to "scare her."

The word "visitation" does not appear in the legal document. I'm it sure if X has tried to make me the bad guy in kids eyes, although she searches for reasons they should not live with me (i.e. house not clean enough). X does try to demonized fiancé and today met with fiance's supervisor at her place of employment (we're both teachers and DD attends the school where we teach).

X did not inform me of HER conference with the principal this PM concerning our DD, ANOTHER violation of custody orders which require parents to communicate "conferences" ,among other things, to one another.