Anyone have any suggestions on the snooping part? I assume it is either going to come up tonight or tomorrow and if it does, I think my strategy is no strategy, just be honest. And do better going forward.

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"