Mach1 - my end goal would be for her to get this off her chest, I listen and we are ale to move forward (what that entails, who lows at this point) past the hurt. I hope it would be the beginning of the road to reconciliation" if there is a chance. I do feel she deserves this, cause, I think she was trying to talk in the marriage and I didn't see and hear it.
ACC - I feel fortunate that she wants to talk to me. Iwas the one pushing for it in the beginning, asking ow she could not have talked to me before leaving. She said she would when she gathered her thoughts. Im just worried that this an effort on her part to justify her decision and just keep moving on...in other words, "Look Chris, here is more evidence of how bad you were to me"...
Now, maybe that is what every WAS does? Did it help you and your wife move past the hurt from the past? I guess I am just so fragile mentally and emotionally right now I don't know if I can take the criticism and hurt. But, I also think, this is the type of conversation she thinks that I wold have argued and not listened to her when we were under the same roof. So, if I listen and validate, it may go a ways in helping her process the hurt, and showing her a new Chris?
