CB, M Go Blue was a poster on this forum long before I came here and he not only went through his own MLC, but after he came out of his crisis, his first wife began her own MLC. You may want to read his thread which is posted at the top of the fourm. I highly recommend reading all of his postings. He was very knowledgeable and was more than willing to share his experiences w/us.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.