Also, be sure to read M Go Blue's postings. He went through a mlc and came here when his first wife began her journey. One of his threads can be located at the top of this forum.
Thanks I will do that next. And certainly will take care of myself, thanks for your kind words.
I have just read your post on why they run. I mentioned in my last thread that my W witnessed her mother doing something that she thought was an attempt at suicide. She also claims that her mother and father argued a lot around that time. Is that the kind of thing you believe could cause them to want to run away later in life.
My W's father has been a drain on her since her mother died, and he is very controlling in his views on how my W should be as a wife and mother. He is quite old fashioned too, and i believe my W is rebelling to this because of the way he has made her life miserable over the last few years when she should have been grieving for herself.
Me: 38 W: 35 M: 9Yrs T: 15Yrs S8 D5 BD: Feb 13 Still Living Together
I feel like I'm in thick forest, I'm slowly drawing a map of the way out, but not sure yet which side of the forest I will emerge.