It's difficult for me to say whether going dark is a good thing since I was emotionally needy and clingy during our M. Going dark and not begging or pleading is probably a 180 in my honest opinion. I am friendly when we do talk, but I haven't initiated any contact. I spoke with my C about this, she has read DB and DR and actually went to a counseling training camp with MWD, so I guess I should trust her advice.


Me 29
H 28
M 9
T 11
No kids
2 dogs
H moved in with parents 3/21/13
H wants a D 4/2/13
D Filed 4/5/13
Served 4/17/13