You are v right that these are common feelings and after the hug yesterday and seeing W so upset again I just wanted to make all her pain go away. She seems so confused, upset about our sitch yet still certain it's for the best.
Be there for her, but don't try to fix her. She has to figure this out for herself.
"yet (she's) still certain it's for the best."
That might be what she says, but I wouldn't be too sure about it. There's always a bit of ambiguity in their mind. Bailing on a H and kids is not an easy thing to do, hence the tears.
Just continue to be the best rky you can be, and keep fueling those doubts!
M: A really long time. Crisis: 5 years. She's still worth it.
Life is never made unbearable by circumstances, but only by lack of meaning and purpose. -Viktor Frankl
