One of my conundrums has been that part of what my wife missed was my expressing how much I cared about her and how I used to make her feel like the most important person in the world. I got away from that last few years and here we sit in MLC-land (new slogan - "Where the weight loss is free").

I have read all the suggestions about pulling back, not pursuing, etc. but yet, that is a big part of what got us here. So, I have been doing 1-2 cards or notes/week and today I took home flowers with a nice card. We have therapy tomorrow, so I am hopeful that I will get a reading on how she is doing, but she seems to be doing better. I am still very worried about her trip this weekend, but that is out of my hands, I can only wish her well and pray that she knows that I am the right man for her and her family is too important to do anything impromptu. But all I can do is show that and pray, she needs to make the decision.

So, for now, Lucy holds the football but I am not on my back.

CB

Me; 42, W; 43
M; 16 yrs
S12, D9

3/13 - "I want to move to XYZ City (four hours away) and it might be without you, not sure"
5/13 - "Not sure I meant that"