"Not mind reading she told me this several times point blank."

She told you this AFTER things settled down?

"Need to open communication up before throwing literature at her"

How do you plan to do this?

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER