I said I wasn't asking for him back, those words never passed my lips, but he's not buying it, he's convinced I'm waiting and watching for the second coming.
funny that - my h said yesterday (something like) i shouldn't assume his affair will "blow over" or work it's way out- i never said that. i never have given him any word or indication i'm "waiting on him". my spiel has been my own inability to pick up my buttons and go. no pressure here.
he sure thinks he Knows me better than i know myself. oh man- ego central. so- your h too. interesting he used such words & lingo. has your h read any db stuff? or is it all intuitive? ya think