She storms into my apt and I had to listen for over an hour about what she had to say, said I was at fault for every thing. I patient listened, said I was really sorry and felt sorry for her. I was little skeptical as she was insisting on asking what are you sorry for kind of making me say things. Just said sorry. I actually touched her and said I am really sorry for what you have to go through, she started tearing and it was a strange time. I just listened and did not interrupt, which in used to do a lot in the past. She just had to get that off the chest. I think she felt better. She said she forgave me but she has problem forgetting. She entered my apartment with rage and was in a smashing mental state to talking less pressured to singing a common song we liked, it's strange but I told her just talk to my step mom as she is the most fair person I could think of, what every it takes, I think she needs little more time. She was constantly cutting my time with son and finally she let's it go and says you can keep him as much, then she storms at 8 pm saying my compensation time is done and i wants son. I said that's fine, u can take, i was about to bath him, for last 2 days i picked him from day care feed, did every thing and didnot ask her any thing. She knows well i can do that gladly for my son who is just 3 yrs, once she text me at 7 am and says son is sick and had to cahnge my schedule took him to my apt and she was going to take it over at noon.
she had lot to talk, finally she just puts it out. I won't call or do any thing, let her have all the time and space. I feel much better and in lot better shape, interm of my moral ground and well being. Any advice is welcome
M - 39W- 38 M - 4 yr,Date-4 mths Son - 2 yr day care S - 9/12 Divorced- 10/10/13 Visits with son other week Working on myself & son,co-parent,change,assertive,alpha/beta, entrepeurneur,care,heal,centered