Originally Posted By: labug
I know, we all start out wanting to be strong and fighting for our marriages but I've found it's in the softening, the dropping of defenses, tearing down the walls, leaning into my pain that my true growth has come.


Another gem and lesson to learn from you, bug. Thanks again for showing me how you do it when it gets tough...

(((((bug))))))


Me & H: 44
D7, D6, S3
Together: 20y, M: 17y
EA: 11/13/10, Sep: 12/23/10
EA becomes PA: Spring 2011
H filed for D: 09/06/12
D Negotiating began 2/15
OW seemingly gone on 3/15
Still negotiating D