We haven't had any major heart to heart talks. She mentioned in short conversations that she saw me working to make changes. She has joked about going through some sort of mid life crisis with me a little and definitely a neighbor. She often references that she is "going crazy" from being a stay at home mom for 7 plus years.

I've looked into solution based counselors in my area and there are none available.

We really need to have a heart to heart (or it would help me) conversation. It is one of my EE goals that I'm trying to tackle.

I know my W is not the counseling type or book reading type. I am and I do read stuff.