I had a great weekend, my 3 good friends came over and cleaned out my flower garden, planted about 100 plants, mulched and it looks fabulous. We also had champagne for breakfast smile. We are doing the same in a few weeks to open my pool lol. Any excuse huh? wink

Today I turned 41 and this was my first birthday without H. I have decided that I will not be a victim but a victor. I'm going to dinner with my kids tonight, I have their love, support but more importantly their respect! I think I already got the better deal.

I keep thinking of the quote "when life gives you lemons". Well I'm just adding water and a wee bit of sugar smile

M 41 H 43
M 22
S 18 S 14 D 11
Affair discovered 1/12
He filed 2/12
OW#2 7/12 she lives next door.
D pending