Mr. B yes we have had sex a few times a month since January. My W will not go to counseling and I can't force her to do something she doesn't want. Plus unless the counseling is solution based counseling I see no point in it myself. I've had 5 counselors who all suggest divorce.
We've addressed several of the issues of before but I haven't had any sort of verbal feedback from her about how she thinks the marriage is going now. We haven't sat down and discussed anything. We sort of just started to move on with our life and marriage.
Part of my EE goals was to start communicating with my W. There has been tiny strides but nothing significant. Almost like we need to have a state of the union talk. How I think things are going and how she thinks things are going could be polar opposite without feedback or communication