"I have been hesitent to try some of these in the past because I didn't want to be seen as pursuing my wife. "
Your W is home. Try a little pursuit. Go back to when you were first going out. What were things she liked to do? Try just having fun with no expectations.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.