lefty,

Yes, he is solution based but when she says im not ready to end the affair and then admit to a second.......not much he can do to work on "Us"

I "THINK" she now qualifies as a MLC. I just protect my D and I


ME 38 W 37
T18 M5
D3
BD 1/7/13
PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing
2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13
W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13
First mediation appt 12/19/13