I just continue to NOT get how he can so easily leave our great family. We are surrounded with frinds that have great families. He doesn't see the gift that it is!
Be careful, this kind of thinking can leave you believing this is just a waiting game. But it's not, because the WAS needs to see changes before they'll think about returning. They don't want to go back to their old spouse or their old marriage. But they may want to get into a new R with a changed spouse.
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Want to vent. want to scream! will it do any good? Not to him only release some of my tension!
Yes it does good. Release it somehow. Maybe it's running, or lifting weights, or hitting a punching bag, or stuffing your face into a pillow and screaming at the top of your lungs. Find your release!
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I didn't stroke his ego enough. I was tired at the end of the day and not into his marathon sex.
Interesting how you couch both of these as insults to your husband. Think about the damage that's causing, how you phrase your 180's as being required due to his problems/ issues rather than yours. See if you can refocus yourself into thinking positively about your H, and accepting his criticism without anger/ bitterness and with a genuine interest in improving yourself in these areas.
