Confused about what I want

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Well, It got worse...boy H went on a rage. I wish he could hear himself.

Phone call #2 - He needs his stuff NOW!!! It can't wait and he is going down to the house to get them. I told him I was not comfortable with that since I wasn't there and didn't want him going through my stuff. He told me too bad and he was doing it anyway to get HIS stuff. I told him that he wouldn't be able to get in and he started laughing and said really, you change the locks. That is MY house and I pay half for it. (funny how now it is his house...all this time it's been "it's YOUR house"). He told me that it was illegal and that WE had agreed to not change anything...and that without anything legal in place I had his stuff there too. I told him calmly that I was taking care of everything, and would get him his stuff as agreed. He said he was going to call the police and they would let him in. I told him that he had ever right to his things, and that I would get them for him later when I had the chance. He yelled something like I was being unreasonable and I told him that I had done nothing but bent over backwards and would get him his things as I always have. I also told him that I wasn't going to be disrespected with him calling me at work, yelling at me, and demanding things. He hung up and said he was calling the cops. I told him that I was sorry he felt he needed to do that. End of call.

Phone Call #3 - He changed his mind/softened his tone. He wasn't going to "break" into the house or call the cops. He demanded his stuff and a key and alarm code to the house as it was half his. I told him I would get him his stuff as he has every right to it. He yelled "AND A KEY AND ALARM CODE". I ended that by just saying ok.

What crazy nonsense...what did I ever do to him for him to act that way? I am so emotionally drained after that one. Fifteen years....we never argued, and now it has come to his MLC for those arguments to happen. Ugh!!! I need a nap.