Stuck..how do I get out???

[willbwell]

Same here, limboland, crazyville! Hate it for the kids. My 16yr old needs his dad involved. What a message it sends. i'm still denying even though H has moved out and taken off his ring. trying to detach. My kids know I love them and am there for them always. I take care of myself but I don't put myself first before my kids. Can't change the H, but wish he would see his impact on the kids.