Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

this morning W was watching a youtube video that seemed like it was probably funny. I asked her what it was and she didn't answer. Thinking that maybe she didn't hear me I asked again but still no answer. That really made me mad, she can't even take 1 second to tell me what she is watching. Then later she said when you move out you can take anything you want with you because I'm gonna do some redecorating. I asked what if I want to stay here? Then she said I though we decided that you were moving out. I told her that we barely even talked about it. It seems like she expects me to just roll over for her and do whatever she wants. To be honest I do want to move out, but I don't want it to seem like I'm doing it because she wants me to. Also I'm not sure where she expects to get the money to redecorate the apartment because we certainly don't have that kind of money laying around.

Sandi2, your advise always seems to make perfect sense. Thanks for your input.