My Story - Need Advice (Thread 2)

[cbtdad]

That would be very tough to listen to and I know it would hurt. It will make you look inward. If it was me I would love if my wife was willing to do something like this. It is very hard for me to get her exact thoughts and feelings. I still feel like we are constantly playing games. As much as it would hurt me to hear all those things about me, I would welcome the chance to hear things she thinks I need to work whether they are true or not.
I guess what I am saying is I would have the talk with your W. I would listen and validate where you think its true, stuff that you dont believe to be true dont validate and dont react at all. I know that its going to be really tough to do, but I think the positves definitely out weigh the negatives in what you could take from this conversation with your W