Answer that ^^^ , and then you can start working on true change..."
I think I am like that because I am an insecure person on the inside. I need to beomce the best person I can be. I dont know when I became so insecure, but I think it started a few years ago. I was a very confident person who would always look at the positives in life. I know its the reason my wife fell in love with me. I need to get that person back, not for W, but for me.
You are so right about the parenting stuff. It is all about perspective and i need to realize that. I cant do it for her. I feel bad for my son in the end. Example is when I have him and she doesnt call to say goodnight. I was thinking to myself that im going to have to text her to remind her to call while she is out of town at this show, but then I remembered that its not my respondsibilty. I keep reminding myself that this his her journey and I need to stop trying to control it. I dont want to be that person anymore
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
