I am not sure how to proceed. My stbx has complained since wanting to separate that my communication has badgered her to agree.
When she said she wanted to give it a try at R I was too familiar and putting problems aside.
When I have tried pulling back and detaching and she will ask why I am not communicating and being civil and say I do not care.
She will not say she is still seeing OM but equally will not commit to NC. If she is still in the fog are the 180's a wast of time? Should I just go dark and detach focus on GAL and ignore her attempts to start a fight.
I am very confused as to the best strategy as her arguments are inconsistent, when it comes to lawyers she is not willing to make the clean cut, separate financials and formalise childcare arrangements. This leave me thinking that she is still unsure, but is perhaps unfounded optimism on my part.
Me 44 WAS 41 T 11 S 8 D 5 DB November 2012 EA and PA discovered December 2012 WAS moved out 4 May 2013 Share residence of S and D 50/50 WAS moves in with OM 1 September 2013.
