Dawn...one more thing...at least your H does tell you something. He talks to you.. My H pretends like I'm crazy, nothing wrong, nothing going on. Yet he runs around all night, sleeps on the couch, ignores his kids and spends like we are the Rockefellers. I think the ignoring thing is what drives me crazy. I'm like, do you remember the man you were a few years ago? Where is that person? The one that was involved and enjoyed his family? Went to soccer games and did more than a day at Chuck E Cheese with his kids. I keep telling my H he has the weekend dad thing down pat. He buys the kids presents in guilt and he takes them to Chuck E Cheese on the weekends when he is with them. Last night he bought them a tent and they pitched it in my living room. He will never take them camping so I'm not sure what that was about or why he wasted the money.
me-42 H-41 S-12 S-8 M-15 yr f/o bout OW- 11-29-12 H moved out 10-31-13 Filed for divorce 12-27-13 D- 10-21-14