My painting party wasn't for you, I like blue!

[tiredndrained]

Nero...I could write a book about my H disfunctional family and no one would believe it to be true. They are probably the most disfunctional bunch of people I have ever met. My father also died very young and my mom did remarry but he also passed away. But, my memories for my family are good and strong. My dad was respectful of my mother and he loved her.

His dad does have five wives but he has been with the last one since we've been together and does seem to have a good relationship with her. Unfortunately all the damage is done from the earlier years when he was jumping around with wives and families. I do believe he was also in a mlc based on stuff his dad told me when I first met him. He had a lot of regrets and said he was in a dark place for a really long time. Now he is happy with this wife and in a good place. I think he was going through a MLC just like my own H. They were about the same age also.

As Snodderly says, it is their journey. Its had not to get sucked into it but we have to let them take it alone. That is what I continuously remind myself. Don't get sucked into his craziness.