And after hearing from you Mach I sent her the following text:
"Hey W. I just wanted to tell you sorry if you felt like I'm putting pressure on you to be back by a certain time today. Wasn 't my intention at all, but looking back at it I realize that's how it might have come across. I will get son from WC this afternoon and we will meet up with you whenever you get back. Remember art show is from 630-8 so we can go anytime between that. So no need to rush. Relax! You are going to do great at this show and that positive attitude needs to start today"
Her response: "Thanks, I appreciate that"
Funny how little things like words make a difference huh ???
I would still take some stuff out, but hey, that's just me....
I wanted to point this out, because the downfall of most of your interactions, comes from your controlling nature...
Why are you like that ???
Answer that ^^^ , and then you can start working on true change...
Even what I struck from what I would have sent, has a tone of YOU trying to control her.....
It has a tone of superiority in it as well...
This is HER day, one that she has been looking forward to for some time....right ????
And you placed exceptions on it for her...
So what happens if she forgets ?
What happens, if she doesn't make it home in time ???
