...now as far as the "relationship expert", he's right. We guys love to be asked for help. It shows the lady is respecting our smarts, our strength and abilities. It's also straight forward and easy to understand. Tell me what you like and I'll do it! When it comes to "how do you feel about..." we get messed up lol. We guys like to fix things, and that can drive women nuts, "I didn't ask you to fix it, I asked you to listen". And yes, Kat was right, he was talking about initial connection and to tell a man you need him for something is darn attractive!