Mach, I also feel that I have to "cave in" and pick up the pieces that she leaves behind from doing these horse shows. It makes me angry and bitter. Thats a big part of the problem with me not knowing what I want at this point either. You're right, i am a parent as well. But she supposed to be as well! thats when I get upset.
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it