H just emailed and said he talked to D and she is going hiking this weekend with him to a mountain three hours away.
Now, I know previously GF was going ( last week) but the weather did not cooperate.
So, 1) H made plans to take D without consulting me first. I have full custody. I am working through this one and think my pissed off reaction is just that. So I am letting that one go. He doesn't see them that often, and I try to encourage his interaction. We have no set schedule. And we are not busy that Saturday.
2). I am leaning towards trusting H in the talks we had. He has not told D he has GF and that talk should be soon. I also requested that his time with her be his time. Not GF, H, and D time. This is my gut feeling...to trust in his respecting my request. I am leaning here to not mentioning a thing about GF and saying sounds great!
A little hamster ish this morn, but if I do not open myself to trust then I haven't moved forward much, have I?
