I have to agree w/the ladies...life is not turning out the way your h thought it would. He's projecting on to you what he should be doing and yet, he turns it around to say that you are not keeping him informed of your schedule. Unfortunately, he didn't get the memo...you don't work for him! LOL!
It's all about control and because he has no control in his own life, he's trying to control the simpliest things that you do. I also think he's trying to find a way to push your buttons and you aren't giving him any justification for why he's behaving the way he is. I would continue doing just as you have and let him stew in his own juices in that pot called mlc.
Defintely pull up a chair and watch this parade whizz by.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.