Wanted to ask some of the vets on here:

I've heard it said by a few people on here that the WAS is very confused and tormented etc. Do you believe this to be true? I only ask because my W seems happy and so together.

W 39 Me 33 M 9yrs
8 year old Son
ILYBINILWY - Dec 12
W moved out - Jan 2013
OM - Jan 2013
I file for D - May 2013