your H sounds like he is unraveling. very odd behaviour.
although you may not have to fear the "coincidences" of H seeming to know where you are all the time.. it probably shouldn't easily dismissed. i don't think you being concerned means you're being a drama queen. it means your radar.. your instincts are kicking in. maybe you should just start documenting things. just a quick running log.
laughable that he is refusing to show financial statements or discuss CS. i am always surprised at how some people feel they make the rules and refuse to cooperate. (((( ))))
Me:38.. H:33. Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3 M:8.. together for 11. Bomb dropped:10/17/11 Separated:11/07/11