Wife is having an emotional affair

[Alan A.]

Well, she finally came home around 11 (5 hours later than normal). She said she had been hanging out with a friend and OM. Then she said she went out to dinner with OM. I found that kind strange because she usually just say she was with a couple of friends and name some of them but she always leave OM out, but today she said she was with him. I guess OM's ex-gf was texting her tonight (they are "friends") and was telling her that she was glad OM was spending time with W because she didn't want OM to hurt as much as she was and she knows W makes OM feel better. I don't think OM's ex-gf knows anything happened before they broke up. From W behavior and was she was saying it seems like shes a lot more broken up about causing OM's ex-gf pain than she is about causing me pain.

Thanks, everyone, for all of your suggestions and support it really helps with the whole process.