My theory has been that when/if he dropped it, that would be the end for him. For us. PERIOD.
It has been 10 months since BD#1 & well over a year since his EA w OW started.
I am devastated. Not shocked, really, but feel there is just no hope left at all.
Meeting w L's tomorrow. Guess I may need one sooner than later.
Since will wait it out until H files, as I told him I do not want this for us or our family.
He says he sees no other choice for him (as he is not willing to give up OW and he said he wants to move forward and not be "stuck" anymore.
He says having seen me "go out" to meet w new friends--play tennis & VB & go out w a divorced new friend that he thought I seemed happier and he has been miserable. So, he needs to "move on" too. I told him it was my way of coping with the cards I had been dealt.
He confirmed EA has not been a PA yet, but clearly wants more from there R. I guess he sees the EA as "moral high ground" having not yet engaged in a PA.
To me one can easily lead to the other.
I thought I would be ready when he finally said this, but I definitely wasn't. Don't really know what to do now. Feels like a new, awful place.
M- 18 T-21 S-14,11 & 10 BD 6-18-2012 (OW-EA) H moved out 11-3-2012 10-5-13 Me- I want a divorce. I want to move on w my life. 11-25-13 Jointly filed.
