My friend, your h is an as@. Oops, did I say that out loud? My bad. LOL!
I think life is not going as he planned and there is a bit of trouble in paradise. So, you are the whipping post.
He's lucky you tell him any plans you have.
Good for you for not rising to the bait and telling him when he didnt let you know. He would have turned that around, too.
It is succking to be him more and more. Poor baby. I almost feel sorry for him. Not! LOL!
Seriously, though, it is best to try to keep saying to yourself - "He's in crisis, he's in crisis" or the cuckoo is out of the clock, the cuckoo is out of the clock". Either one works.
You just keep going and let this play out. Methinks the steam is running out.
Pull up that lawn chair. Pull one up for me. What are we drinking?