The long and winding road

[reachingHigher]

Tvs,

I'm so sorry. I think he is giving you a hard time to find the smallest thing he can that is wrong with you -- to justify his own behavior. And he can't find any!

Today, I looked through my threads during the last three months of 2012. I can't believe what a rollercoaster it was! You were there time and time again. Idk how you all got me through all that mess.

I copied a couple of the funnier things you said, maybe it'll give you a laugh:

You:

"My dear RH,

Just for you, I am going to give a TVS paraphrase of what Snodderly said.

S19 is a mature, thoughtful, compassionate, smart, intuitive, and loving individual. Just like his mother.

H continues to be a self-centered, selfish, immature, clueless butt wipe.

Did I leave anything out?

I hope the birthday party goes well for you and your sons.

Thinking of you"

And:

"Honestly, your H is living in MLC La La Land where the Umpa Lumpas, flying monkeys, and ex-husbands and wives all sit around and hold hands and sing Kumbuya. Give me a freakin break!"

And I said this:

"I actually hope my H never decides to reconcile b/c I don't know if I can forgive the hurt I've experienced. I just want to move on and look back at the good times and be appreciative for what I've learned. And enjoy the successes in life -- our children, our financial success, our journey."

I hope it gives you a smile.
It's a strange journey we are on.
When snodderly says he's baking up nicely, it's good
Thinking of you,
rH