Welcome L4MD... I have seen a few sucess stories directly related to already being divorced situations, and having them turned around. So, yes it does happen, but most of the time it doesnt happen very quickly, which makes those of us waiting really wonder if it will ever happen. I am having more good days than bad now....and seem to have turned the corner on a few other areas of work on my own situation. As for Holding out for hope, I am seeing that its all up to the individuals that hold on for their own reasons....for me, I am still hopeful....and fell good that its the right choice for me at this time. Do some more exploring...read more...post more There is a lot of great advice around here Hope to see you again.... J
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12
