Jrg, I agree. I think I have read everything imaginable on relationships since the bomb was dropped on me. I will definitely make a better husband for someone in the future. I just hope my wife sees the changes and decides to come back. If she doesn't then honestly, it's her loss.
Emilys88.
You are still very fresh with the bomb being dropped. Hang in there...I went from being an emotional mess who could not even function daily to now being able to,get back into my normal routine. Yes, I think about her all day everyday, but because I have learned to except it for what it is. I have been able to detach slightly to the point where I just miss her daily. I just keep telling myself it was HER decision and not mine. And I keep telling myself I have to except the things I cannot change. She will have to change her mind herself. Save my energy for things I can change....which is me. It has helped!
Me 33 W 32 Married 10/13/12 WAW Started sleeping in spare room 1/13/13 Divorce filed 2/13/13 Seperated 3/1/13 till ????????? Divorced 5/28/13