I had a session with a coach, and he asked me what H expects me to do in this situation (him starting the D process). I had to think about it very hard, since I don’t really know what he expects. He wants me to go along and even help him to file the paper work, but what he truly thinks I would do, I have no idea.
Ruby, I’ve been following your sitch for some time, and I admire your strength. I don’t know if I would be able to do this if my H would have a GF. I think I would be done, but I guess I don’t know for sure. You are truly an inspiration for me. I’ve been trying to test the waters (for me) of being a friend to my H (after all, this is what he wants), but I find it a bit difficult sometimes.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
