Here's the thing, if you will. Human nature as it is, if she feels resistance, she'll push harder. The moment you let her think that she CAN have Milwaukee... She may actually start wondering if it really is such a good idea. And of course, her fantasy will no longer be such and she'd actually have to do the hard work to even begin such a move.
Keep your validations in the realms that you posted above and you will be well on your way to making it a habit and that is good for you.
