ND: very interesting concept. Not sure if it applies, but I was certainly the emotional one lol!
Bug: I can see this from a woman's POV, but maybe not a man's. h told me that I never really needed him for anything. That nineteen years ago when I was terrorized by our landlord and called H crying, that that was the last time he ever felt needed. Kind of sad, I think.
I am not sure how to need him now, especially since he is not here. And the fact is I don't need him.. Want him, yes, but need? No. How do I reconcile that with a guy who just wants some validation in the form of being needed??
