I have similar dilemma. I’ve been pretty much dark with my H doe a few months now. It didn’t take me anywhere so far. He actually started the conversation about the D two weeks ago. He wants to file jointly and not use the layers. We met a few times during last 9 months of separation. I was especially upbeat and friendly during the last few times when we met. But, it seems to make no difference to him.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
