Taking a step back-a fresh start

[cbtdad]

Just had the following text exchnge with W. Did I handle this ok?
WC = babysitter

Me: All I'm asking you is to give me an idea so I can plan whether i need to get him from WC or not tomorrow.

Me: Also, his last day of school is at noon on may 17th.
So now we have to figure that out around your surgery as well

W: Ok I'm not able to answer your question. I'll get back ASAP Tomororw

Me: I understand you might not be able to answer it right now. I was asking for an idea. 4? 5? 6?
Then I figured you would let me know tomorrow when you where leaving Show. That's all

W: Lets say 5 and ill let you know

Me: Thank you. Fair enough.
Now depending on my day I'll have an idea whether or not to get son from WC

Me: btw, Put WC on alert for 5/17 as well

W: Ok but can you focus on what needs to be done now. I'm not mad or blaming you but this is really stressing me out and making me not want to go

Me: Huh? Not wanting to go where

W: to the show

Me: Wife, you need to do this show. You have been preparing for this show for a while. I certainly do not want to add any stress to your plate. It's just that this show is 2 weeks and then next thing you know you have this surgery.
I'm jut trying to line up my end of things that's all.
If there is something I can do to help you, within reason, let me know

W: I understand. I'm just freaking out and I'm not enjoying it.

W: Nothing seems to get done with anything unless I'm on top of it and I feel like I'm letting everything fail

W: House, Son, show. Everything

Me: You are not letting everything fail. I can understand with everything going on why you would feel that way. I'm trying to help you where I can. That's why I'm asking the things I do.