I am by no means the DB queen, but guess what? H misses who I HAVE BECOME.
More importantly? I like who I've become and while H back in my life would be what I would hope for, it will be okay if he is not there as my partner, I will be okay.
Were you very clingy and emotional during your marriage? Sorry, I can't remember. If you weren't, then NC is just behaviour he is used to.
90 days is a lifetime. Me? I would look at it as a gift.
