Thanks HWA. I swing between the two. Because H just can't express himself...therefore, I get the wrong message and end up thinking exactly what you said....that he is selfish. I do my best to turn things around and look at it differently, but I can't help wondering if I am just accepting crumbs and I know I deserve far more than that.

Just another bad day I guess. Always hoping tomorrow will be better, and working on my PMA.