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Hey azguy! You are probably right on the codependacy. Also, I think (not to toot my own horn) I've done really well with just going with the flow & acting as if. I'm not very good at pulling back really.

So, I'm afraid of how I will be since be has specifically asked for time. I can see myself not engaging in any activity/conversation & trying to pull away to give him time & he is going ask what's wrong.