My painting party wasn't for you, I like blue!

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Dawn...I've been called boring on several occasions. What I wanted to say was we can't all be running around all night long having sleepovers every night. Someone has to be responsible and raise our children. I used to be fun but now I've got a 40 yr old husband that thinks he is a teenager and doesn't come home at night. There is nothing fun about that.

In regards to them leaving..my H had an interview today and brought up the benefits for just him and kids. Hoping that is a sign he is really planning on going already. With that being said, the money was bad and I'm pretty sure he won't take the job. Ugh...still stuck!!!

Nero..hang in there. In response to your question..I don't think it is going to happpen where we can just be casual friends or roommates with this H of ours. They did too much damage. They think if they do fix a bookcase they are good for another month etc.

In my own case, my H spent months at a time with the OW and didn't come home. Then when I asked him if he loved her when I found out he played so stupid like, of course not. That is so riduculous. So, you mean you lost everything, didn't come home, broke up our family and marriage, destroyed any bond you had with our children, and didn't even love her? Seemed like a stupid response. I told him so many times he should just go move in with her. He always says they are not together anymore and he doesn't want her back, etc. Well, if not, then who are you with?? That only leaves it open to yet another OW and since he constantly lies I have no clue anymore. I still believe he never broke up with the first one. The one he doesn't love and isn't moving out for...Sometimes I can't figure out why he won't just go to her already. He is not a prize. She can have him. Any woman Ok with dating another woman's damaged goods should take him. The way I look at it, they won't work out or he will just do the same. Did I mention his father had 5 wives??